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helpmegetthin:

tradethesunforthemoonandstars:

dazzlefly:

procrastinationandsarcasm:

aclutteredmind:

santress:

On Straw Dogs:
“I think it’s fuckin’ sad,” he says.  ”Because Charlie thinks this is not rape.  He thinks she wants this: “She belongs with me — this is it, here we are, together forever.’ And that look between them when she’s like, Get off me…It kills him.”
Ultimately, though, the lesson he took from the role was “how crazy love can make you.”  He says, “I don’t fall often, but I fall hard. And when you fall hard, it takes a while to get up.”
— Alexander Skarsgard (Men’s Journal (Oct. 2011), Scans:  StoreMags.com)

I’m sorry, what?  It’s sad for the rapist?  I hope he meant sad as in pathetic, but that’s still not right.  Abhorrent would be better.  Atrocious.  Horrific.  Something that should never happen.  Those would be better things to say, not that you pity him.  And the lesson is how crazy love can make you.  Because the rapist is a victim of love.  Because the rapist is just so in love.  No, I don’t think so.  I realize he’s your character, but the rapist is not the victim.  He’s not a sympathetic character.  There is never an excuse for rape.

Guys.  If he can’t find a way to sympathize with the character, to rationalize him, to make him seem human, how is he supposed to play him?  This is all fictional and theoretical.  Were there actual people involved, it would be more black and white.

why so much beef? I agree with above rebuttle. well said procrastinationandsarcasm - however I also agree with statement above as well. it’s a tough position.

OH DEAR GODRIC. Get over it girls. Seriously. I understand what he’s saying, that’s why we’re soul mates obviously.

no dude…he’s not the rapist. he LETS her get raped. that’s why he’s talking about “it’s fuckin sad” b/c he lets the woman he loves get raped b/c he thinks “she doesn’t want me, she doesn’t want me protecting her” so he lets it happen.

it’s not really as if they don’t know each other. They have been in a relationship. The lack of communication really screws them over, if you’ll pardon the word usage. 

helpmegetthin:

tradethesunforthemoonandstars:

dazzlefly:

procrastinationandsarcasm:

aclutteredmind:

santress:

On Straw Dogs:

“I think it’s fuckin’ sad,” he says.  ”Because Charlie thinks this is not rape.  He thinks she wants this: “She belongs with me — this is it, here we are, together forever.’ And that look between them when she’s like, Get off me…It kills him.”

Ultimately, though, the lesson he took from the role was “how crazy love can make you.”  He says, “I don’t fall often, but I fall hard. And when you fall hard, it takes a while to get up.”

— Alexander Skarsgard (Men’s Journal (Oct. 2011), Scans:  StoreMags.com)

I’m sorry, what?  It’s sad for the rapist?  I hope he meant sad as in pathetic, but that’s still not right.  Abhorrent would be better.  Atrocious.  Horrific.  Something that should never happen.  Those would be better things to say, not that you pity him.  And the lesson is how crazy love can make you.  Because the rapist is a victim of love.  Because the rapist is just so in love.  No, I don’t think so.  I realize he’s your character, but the rapist is not the victim.  He’s not a sympathetic character.  There is never an excuse for rape.

Guys.  If he can’t find a way to sympathize with the character, to rationalize him, to make him seem human, how is he supposed to play him?  This is all fictional and theoretical.  Were there actual people involved, it would be more black and white.

why so much beef? I agree with above rebuttle. well said procrastinationandsarcasm - however I also agree with statement above as well. it’s a tough position.

OH DEAR GODRIC. Get over it girls. Seriously. I understand what he’s saying, that’s why we’re soul mates obviously.

no dude…he’s not the rapist. he LETS her get raped. that’s why he’s talking about “it’s fuckin sad” b/c he lets the woman he loves get raped b/c he thinks “she doesn’t want me, she doesn’t want me protecting her” so he lets it happen.

it’s not really as if they don’t know each other. They have been in a relationship. The lack of communication really screws them over, if you’ll pardon the word usage. 

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  9. objectifyingmenbecausewecan reblogged this from mimosasatdorsia and added:
    Rude, and disrespectful? Like this? —> ”If you aren’t good at understanding characters and seeing other points of view...
  10. unprinted reblogged this from joannastarks and added:
    Oh, you viking dream boat.
  11. mimosasatdorsia reblogged this from luvtheviking and added:
    I said pretty much the EXACT same thing Alex said in the car on the way home and my friends were like “So you felt bad...
  12. aintnothinboutitluck reblogged this from luvtheviking
  13. morphineprincss reblogged this from notjusttheblood and added:
    I completely agree with notjustheblood.
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  15. thatgashinasundress reblogged this from stillhidden and added:
    He obviously isn’t condoning his character’s actions because he is calling it what it is: rape. As an actor he has to...
  16. him-e reblogged this from unreconstructedfangirl
  17. stillhidden reblogged this from unreconstructedfangirl and added:
    Yes, that I agree with. He is not a rape apologist, and it’s pretty clear to anyone who has read the interview. But I am...
  18. unreconstructedfangirl reblogged this from stillhidden and added:
    Absolutely — nothing he said was in anyway excusing the rape. He wasn’t calling the rape an act of love, and he isn’t...
  19. objectifyingmenbecausewecan reblogged this from stillhidden and added:
    At this point I shouldn’t even bother but I’m a little depressed now. “Why don’t you step down off of your moral high...
  20. aclutteredmind reblogged this from objectifyingmenbecausewecan and added:
    Apparently notjusttheblood and luvtheviking missed my reply, which used none of the personal depictions to which you...
  21. objectifyingmenbecausewecan reblogged this from notjusttheblood and added:
    You know, just because you say you’re neither rude nor shallow doesn’t mean you actually aren’t. I don’t know you so I...
  22. stillhidden reblogged this from poligirl25 and added:
    Not only that, but the quote is taken completely out of context. He isn’t justifying the rape, he certainly isn’t...
  23. poligirl25 reblogged this from luvtheviking and added:
    Wow! Like everyone else has already explained, I thought it was pretty clear that Alex’s comments were him explaining...
  24. kitchietj reblogged this from notjusttheblood and added:
    Just to add my two cents. You can understand and have sympathy for his POV without condoning his actions. I speak from...
  25. luvtheviking reblogged this from notjusttheblood and added:
    Dude, he’s an actor, he always has to find a way to get his characters or he should change his job. Next time try to...
  26. notjusttheblood reblogged this from objectifyingmenbecausewecan and added:
    since many of his fans think of him as more than just a “hot guy” most of your argument is invalid. AND being “feminist”...
  27. tiromu reblogged this from aclutteredmind
  28. snagglepuss78 reblogged this from aclutteredmind and added:
    jesus, are you kidding me with the whole, ‘he needs to find some sort of connection to his character’ shit? there are...
  29. aclutteredmind reblogged this from objectifyingmenbecausewecan and added:
    Wow. Reblogging this because I missed that last comment and littlemissbitchy’s response is gold. I know I’m not just...
  30. aclutteredmind reblogged this from nothinglikeforever and added:
    I don’t feel well-versed enough in rape culture to fully answer this, but I’ll try, because I really feel it needs...
  31. objectifyingmenbecausewecan reblogged this from notjusttheblood and added:
    Oh excuse me, I’m so sorry the topic of rape annoys you (I’ll be using “you” to include everyone who thinks he’s just so...
  32. nothinglikeforever reblogged this from helpmegetthin and added:
    it’s not really as if they don’t know each other. They have been in a relationship. The lack of communication really...